Hey Mom…Here’s Some Help for the Hard Days

One thing I never expected to bring home from the hospital with my baby was that big load of mom guilt. You know the one I mean…where you feel guilty for just about everything you do (or don’t do!) as a mom. I think they must have stuck it in my bag when I wasn’t looking.

We moms feel guilty for leaving dishes piled up in the sink because we chose to read to our kids instead of cleaning up after breakfast.  We feel guilty for not lingering over the kids’ bedtime routine because we’re tired, even though we managed to get dinner on the table, the dishwasher loaded and the dog walked. We can never find that perfect balance of clean house and quality time with our kids, so we just end up in an endless cycle of mommy guilt.

In fact, on days like this you might be tempted to judge yourself even more harshly. Not only were you not at your best, but actually, you’re a terrible mom. A pathetic homemaker. The day was a disaster. You probably deserve an F minus in motherhood.

And on and on goes the litany in your head as you stew about the ways you didn’t match up or weren’t enough or were too whatever (angry, critical, impatient, disorganized, fill in the blank).

An honest, candid and incredibly encouraging series of three videos just for moms. It’s called The Truth About #MomFail Culture: 10 Things You Need to Hear on the Hard Days

You snap a shot of your depressing laundry pile after the kids go to bed and share it on Instagram with a self-deprecating comment and the hashtag #momfail. It’s only meant as a joke, of course, but deep down it feels a little truer than you wish it did.

If this sounds even remotely familiar, you need to know two things:

  1. You are not. Most of us feel this way far more than we ever admit.
  2. All the ways you failed?? How awful you did today or last week? It’s just not true. You’re doing better than you think.

I’ve had these sorts of days myself, and it’s precisely because I get it that I’m so excited to point you in the direction of this brand new (and free!) video series created by two moms who have lived their fair share of #momfail days.

Stephanie and Beth are not only popular bloggers, but they’re also moms in the trenches. They’ve got 8 kids and almost 20 years of mothering experience between them.

They also understand and have the deepest compassion for moms who are working their tails off, but still hitting the pillow at night with a heavy heart and tear-stained face, because they feel like they’re failing at one of the most important things they’ll ever do in their lives.

And so they’ve put together an honest, candid and incredibly encouraging series of three videos just for moms. It’s called “The Truth About #MomFail Culture: 10 Things You Need to Hear on the Hard Days”.

It won’t solve all your problems, and much as they wish they could, they can’t reach through the computer and fold that pile’o’laundry for you. But we can all benefit from a fresh perspective and encouragement from someone who really gets it.

Each video is short – around 10 minutes, and you can watch it on any sort of device and whenever you’ve got a few spare minutes.

To watch the video series, just click this link and enter your name and email to sign up. You’ll get access to the first video today, and then one per day after that.

I hope this series gives you a little pick-me-up today and helps you to know just what a great mom you are 🙂

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